Elder Frettwell , Your wisdom in the word has hit the nail on the head. We should all study to show ourselves approved of God . A workman that needeth not to be ashamed. If we will stay in the Word there is no shame . If we start thinking about what we think is right and what we think is fair , hurt and shame are standing by ready to take a bow. MARK MATHIS annm@juno.com P.O. BOX 415 CEDAR PARK, TEX. 78630